You know that feeling? You lift the camera, take the shot, and they’ve seen you.
Instantly your mind races with the wildest scenarios about what’s going to happen next. And then? Nothing.
Most of the time at least. People often don’t care as much as you imagine in your head. They might give you a quick questioning glance, decide the situation isn’t worth their energy and just carry on with their day.
But what if something does happen? Sometimes I get asked: "What are you photographing?" or "Did you just take my picture?"
I usually answer honestly: "Yeah, I like your outfit" or "Yeah, I do street photography and I thought the way you were standing there with that light and your cigarette in hand was really interesting."
That often puts them at ease because they get an authentic answer. Some even want to see the photo or have it sent to them. And it doesn’t just make me happy, it’s also a gift for them for asking.
The first few seconds usually reveal how the conversation will go. Do they seem tense? Annoyed? Or calm and curious? Are they coming toward you quickly or slowly almost shyly?
The moment when someone looks directly into the camera, that’s something truly special. I´s a connection. I can’t really describe it. And honestly I often only notice it later when I’m going through the photos.
Luckily I haven’t had many confrontations so far because I’ve developed a pretty good instinct for when and who to photograph.
People walking down the street with a smile lost in thought relaxed, they usually react more calmly. If someone seems rushed or is trying to hide I leave them be.
So far no one has ever asked me to delete a photo. But I know: If it happens that’s okay. It’s their right. At the end of the day it’s not about the single shot, it’s about everyone going home feeling good.
So if you’ve ever hesitated out of fear of confrontation: You’re not alone.
